Courage

Eric and I had a date night on Friday, trying out a restaurant we've never been to in Nashville during Restaurant Week. Half-way through our dinner, they seated a young girl by herself in the corner. She seemed so content and happy as they brought out the various parts of her meal. And I haven't been able to stop thinking about her since then.

I love that she went to this restaurant by herself. I remember being single and often going places by myself and thinking too much sometimes about what people would think about that. I didn't want pity; I wanted to be able to go somewhere (a movie, dinner, coffee, etc) by myself for the pure pleasure of enjoying and experiencing something. And sometimes, I wanted to do it on my own. The times where I really was unaware of what others may have thought, I felt free and joyful and appreciative of my life.

I applauded her being there (whatever her reasons). For being out there and enjoying where she is in life. It was an encouragement to me--as I always seem to look forward to the next thing--to enjoy the day He has me in, the place and stage of life He has chosen for me right now. I don't want to miss out on lovely dinners, sweet observations, and memorable moments with my husband and community, or by myself :) .

Thank you, Lord, for a week of thankfulness for my life, exactly as it is.